The reason for our move was largely motivated by being closer to our family. Our hearts are overflowing with gratitude for our families and the time we have already spent with them. At the end of January my wonderful husband's fantastic parents and brother came to help us pack up boxes and load the moving van. We are EXTREMELY GRATEFUL. We loaded up the truck and pulled into my marvelous parents' house where they took in this family of three for a couple of months while we sold our house in Oklahoma and found a house here. We are EXCEEDINGLY GRATEFUL.
So what has this Mama been up to lately besides moving? Being a mama. I'm approaching my second Mother's Day as a mother this weekend. It has been such a wonderful adventure for the past 14 months. And now I'm starting to learn a little bit about how parenting can hurt. I have recently developed what I've come to find out has been termed "Mommy Thumb." It is a certain type of tendinitis that is at the base of the thumb joint and wrist. It is generally caused by the motion of picking up your child...thus the nickname. I know this is extremely insignificant in the scope of pain (physical and emotional) that parents go through in the life of a child, but it is a small example of playing through the pain and doing what it takes to care for your child.
Just because my wrist hurts, that doesn't mean I'm going to ignore my baby girl when she looks up at me and says "Up please!" No! I'm going to pick her up and hug that sweet baby! And when she cries I'm going to cradle her and support her until her fear or pain goes away. And when she looks at me and says "I Na Nu" (which is I love you in her little language), the pain of a wrist melts away. When I think of sacrifice and love of a mother, I of course think of my sweet Mama and my loving Mother-in-Law. But I'm also reminded of our dear sweet birth mother who chose adoption for our baby girl. She knew she could not raise this baby, but she made the hard and brave decision to choose parents who would love and care for her. She did what it took and played through the pain to make that call to the adoption agency. And we are ETERNALLY GRATEFUL.
This Mother's Day I have so many people in my life for who I am GRATEFUL. And I know that all these blessings come down from the Father above. So happy Mother's Day all. I'm praying that even if it is a hard day for you for one reason or another (as I'm sure it may be for our birth mama), you can be able to look to God and find the blessings in your life that He has brought. May He be the one to craft in you a GRATEFUL HEART.
(I am getting back to my crafting adventures so stay tuned for more posts!)